Sweet Stress

May 12, 2011 Comments (6)

Tonight there was a dessert social in the lobby of my building.

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They served chocolate layer cake, apple pie, carrot cake, oatmeal cookies, chocolate chip cookies, cinnamon buns, cheesecake and more. Oh and they had fruit salad.

It’s sort of funny because I was not interested in the sugary beverages. I had no desire to drink a can of diet Coke, Pepsi, or fruit drink. Gwenn had a cookie and some fruit salad. She offered me some fruit but I refused. In fact I could care less about it because it wasn’t what I was after.

I wanted something sweeter and stronger. I wanted more than just one bite. I wanted to lose myself in something chocolatly and rich. I really wanted a cookie and some cake. I wanted to binge on it. Why?

Stress. I’m a little stressed out right now. That’s it. I’m stressed and so I want to focus my stress. What makes me want to turn the tension in my body onto itself? Bingeing is like pointing a gun at yourself to relieve your own fear. Doing so doesn’t make the problem go away, it simply changes your focus for a limited amount of time.

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The desire to binge feels like contained energy that needs to be let out. From now on I’m going to try to accomplish something whenever I want to eat sweets. It can be something simple like taking out the trash or writing a blog post like this one. It doesn’t matter. There. This blog post is done and so is the dessert social. I made it.

Comments · Sweet Stress

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Digby
May 13, 2011

Excellent post! Younare so right about eating sweets-carbs to relieve stress is like pointing a gun at yourself.  I’ve struggles for most of my adult life with sugar-carb cravings. I was really good 2/3 of the time, but then would have these 2-3 days binges that just got worse over time. I’ve been searching for a blog like this. So many take the just-eat-fruit-or-whole-grains all of which are sugat to me now. Thanks for yhe blog. i will be reading your past entries to see ow you managed. I finally made the decision to stay away from any and all sugars for I know I will never feel free and happy if I don’t.

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DavidVanadia
May 13, 2011

Hi Digby. I still eat fruit. What do you eat if you avoid it?

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Digby
May 13, 2011

I only eat only berries, very rarley something made with apple, and low starch veg; it takes very little carb to trigger binges. It’s been hard for me to accept that I can’t have just a little without getting sucked into a binge.

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DavidVanadia
May 13, 2011

That stinks that fruit does that to you.

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Digby
May 13, 2011

I believe ther is a continuum in most things and that bell curve plays out predictably. I have family members who will never be affected by carbs, and a few like me who are seriously addicted to them, with most somewhere in between. What really made me finally accept that I was dealing with something beyond will-power was that I was very successful in every other aspect of my life, had plenty of will power, except for this one thing, sugar, which really got a lot worse about ten years ago as my work stress increased, but my sleep was halved; a recipe for sugar cravings.
(Sorry about the typos; I’m still learning to type on this ipad.)

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Mel
May 18, 2011

This is a great post—especially the insight about stress still existing even after you dive into a dessert…or like Digby mentioned, a whole binge of sweets. I have the same problem, and have found that for now, I need to stay away from fruit until my body repairs from the damaged I’ve done to it through sweets and carbs. I look forward to reading many more entries. Thanks, David.

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